Although I do try to get all my friends and boyfriend to eat healthy, I don't expect him to give up healthy, natural sugars, or organic chips. I love cooking and baking him healthy "junk" food like homemade versions of Twix, chips, french fries, whole grain pastas, lentil tacos (omgosh, lentil tacos), pizza, etc. If your partner and friends aren't vegan, then that is a bit different as it is hard knowing a non-human animal has died, but going vegan is easy and amazing!!! Eating healthy and eating less are two very different things. If you want only one serving of whole grain spaghetti and your partner or friend wants 3 or 4 that is okay.NEVER "help" a partner try to lose weight, it gives in to diet culture and kinda tells the other person you don't love them for them.
Help People To Love Themselves Instead Of Helping Them Hate Themselves @ Calm Mind Open Heart
If you feel you need to diet and someone says"I'll help you..." instead of "no,you're perfect." get rid of them. by WLI
People become angry at someone for eating donuts (even if they are homemade and healthier) because they are on a diet.
Also see my post "Fat (& thin) shaming doctor/peer kit: Food policing.Stop telling me to eat more/eat less - I don't want to lose /gain weight "
There are not a lot of "bad foods" Gluten is not bad, (organic) oils are not bad, etc. For a list of food fear mongering I made check out my Food Fear Mongering page @ Chunkealthy Life. If you are TRYING To lose they are bad because they may mess up weight loss, but they are not evil foods (heavily processed foods are;however, bad as they have harmful chemicals in them)
Don't calorie /body / weight police because:1. It is very controlling to do so.2. It is narcissistic to do so.See 'Yucky superiority complexs' catergory @ my site, Calm Mind Open Heart See 'Why people bully' category @ my site Love & Lust 13:4-7 See the 'NPDAbuse' catergory @ my other blog, Look @ Me HPD Support
3. Maybe he or she loves to eat and doesn't want to eat less. Just because you do, doesn't mean everyone does. 4. Their body is their body. They are allowed to put as much in it as they want.5. It is a form of bigotry (weightism) who cares if your friend is getting fat, or how much (or little - without going below a certain amount) he or she eats.6.
If a loved one binges, they should eat a little slower, but it's their body, let them do what they want. You wouldn't want someone shoving food into your face when you are trying to lose weight. They eat how they want and so do you. I tell my friend /potential roommate and boyfriend they are perfect all of the time. Don't push diets onto people that don't want to go on them in order for them to "feel good" about themselves. They need love and to be told they are perfect to feel good, not diet or someone to be a diet pusher. Dieting does not equal self love. Sometimes people feel like they need to if someone they love does, don't make your loved ones feel that way. If they choose, okay, but if they fall off the wagon don't lecture or complain or pester them. Their body, they can do whatever they want.5. It is a form of abuse. Telling someone what to do with his or her own body can be considered abusive and a light form of verbal abuse. It is like telling somewhere where they can or can't go, who they can and can't see, etc.6. Don't tell them your goal weight, sometimes that can trigger thoughts for them. Just explain how you want to eat less and just respect your decision if you don't want to go back for a second helping. Leave all traces of goal weights, and motivation in a book or something instead of all over the house as that can be triggering. Ex. my friend/potential roommate and boyfriend both have body issues; therefore, bragging about how much weight I've lost may trigger unwanted horrible thoughts for them. Support their eating habits as they support yours.7. Don't brag about weight loss/weight you are at/how thin you have gotten/want to be, your eating habits,etc. See number 6 8. Stop "diet talk" around them.
Don't say I want to be... [body type] instead say..
Tips:
1.Separate your food from theirs. This way you can't eat junk as it is his food, not yours. I put some tape in the middle of the fridge. Separate cupboards. Even if you are married or in a long term relationship, what is his or her is not automatically yours. So, you would be less willing to take his or her food that belongs to him or her if it is theirs and not shared (bought for both of you to eat).2 If vegans can live with meat eaters, you can be friends(or live) with someone who eats differently than you.3. You don't even need to make separate meals. Especially if they are healthy meals (which they should always be) But if he or she goes back for a second helping, or doesn't measure it out, don't complain. He or she is not watching calories, while you are. That is okay. If it is too tempting, measure a certain amount out, and give the rest to your partner, friend, or roommate. This way, if you are tempted to eat more because of your friends or partner you can't because that would be giving them something and then taking it back, which is really rude and mean and totally, uncool.Ex. If me and my boyfriend or my female friend lived together - I am trying lose 10 pounds, when I do lose it I want to maintain my weight to have a slender figure. I follow a very restrictive /strict diet of just whole foods during the week and whole food "junk" food during the weekend (while staying in a certain calorie range) Instead of just eating healthy I restrict calories to what I need (I follow a calorie counter/tracker). My boyfriend and friend both really enjoy eating;therefore, I would not make them restrict their calories or serving sizes just because I do. I love food, but want to be thin. They love food. I would always remind them they just because I eat less, doesn't mean they do. I would help them eat healthy; but I don't eat things like refined sugar, any yeast products,etc (to see my eating habits click on weight loss and the eating healthy for orexie link) during the week.They would. That is okay. I do allow myself those foods (still healthy and organic ) on the weekends, but I still watch my caloric intake. But I would let my friend and boyfriend eat however much they wanted to. If your roommate,friend,partner binges who cares. Their body, their rules (maybe eat slowly, but if they want to eat an entire (healthy pizza made with organic ingredients) it is their body,not yours. If they are feeling guilty about binging because you eat less here at m site Chunkealthy Life is some great ways for them to not feel guilty.4.Remind your friend/partner you will still love them. Some people feel their partner will not love them anymore after the weight loss. Remind your partner you will always find him or her sexy and remind your friends that you will always be the same person who thinks highly of them. Weight has no indication of sexiness, and if you find yourself thinking your partner isn't as sexy because you are losing weight, you have problems.5 It is not the weight, but what you eat. Do not think since you are losing weight and your friend or partner is not that you are healthy and they aren't. If you are both eating healthy, organic, whole foods and exercing you are both healthy. Just because they eat more doesn't mean they are automatically not healthy as weight does not have an indication of health. So don't not start lecturing your friend or partner about eating less/losing weight for health because you want to lose weight. You eat your 1500 (or whatever) calories and exercise for 30 minutes and let them eat their 3000(or whatever) calories and exercise for 30 minutes. Stay active throughout the day as a secondary lifestyle is dangerous and don't food/body police . Also see Love & Lust 13:4-7 my site about loving no matter what someone's body type, weight, etc is.
Help People To Love Themselves Instead Of Helping Them Hate Themselves @ Calm Mind Open Heart
If you feel you need to diet and someone says"I'll help you..." instead of "no,you're perfect." get rid of them. by WLI
People become angry at someone for eating donuts (even if they are homemade and healthier) because they are on a diet.
Also see my post "Fat (& thin) shaming doctor/peer kit: Food policing.Stop telling me to eat more/eat less - I don't want to lose /gain weight "
There are not a lot of "bad foods" Gluten is not bad, (organic) oils are not bad, etc. For a list of food fear mongering I made check out my Food Fear Mongering page @ Chunkealthy Life. If you are TRYING To lose they are bad because they may mess up weight loss, but they are not evil foods (heavily processed foods are;however, bad as they have harmful chemicals in them)
Don't calorie /body / weight police because:1. It is very controlling to do so.2. It is narcissistic to do so.See 'Yucky superiority complexs' catergory @ my site, Calm Mind Open Heart See 'Why people bully' category @ my site Love & Lust 13:4-7 See the 'NPDAbuse' catergory @ my other blog, Look @ Me HPD Support
3. Maybe he or she loves to eat and doesn't want to eat less. Just because you do, doesn't mean everyone does. 4. Their body is their body. They are allowed to put as much in it as they want.5. It is a form of bigotry (weightism) who cares if your friend is getting fat, or how much (or little - without going below a certain amount) he or she eats.6.
If a loved one binges, they should eat a little slower, but it's their body, let them do what they want. You wouldn't want someone shoving food into your face when you are trying to lose weight. They eat how they want and so do you. I tell my friend /potential roommate and boyfriend they are perfect all of the time. Don't push diets onto people that don't want to go on them in order for them to "feel good" about themselves. They need love and to be told they are perfect to feel good, not diet or someone to be a diet pusher. Dieting does not equal self love. Sometimes people feel like they need to if someone they love does, don't make your loved ones feel that way. If they choose, okay, but if they fall off the wagon don't lecture or complain or pester them. Their body, they can do whatever they want.5. It is a form of abuse. Telling someone what to do with his or her own body can be considered abusive and a light form of verbal abuse. It is like telling somewhere where they can or can't go, who they can and can't see, etc.6. Don't tell them your goal weight, sometimes that can trigger thoughts for them. Just explain how you want to eat less and just respect your decision if you don't want to go back for a second helping. Leave all traces of goal weights, and motivation in a book or something instead of all over the house as that can be triggering. Ex. my friend/potential roommate and boyfriend both have body issues; therefore, bragging about how much weight I've lost may trigger unwanted horrible thoughts for them. Support their eating habits as they support yours.7. Don't brag about weight loss/weight you are at/how thin you have gotten/want to be, your eating habits,etc. See number 6 8. Stop "diet talk" around them.
Don't say I want to be... [body type] instead say..
Tips:
1.Separate your food from theirs. This way you can't eat junk as it is his food, not yours. I put some tape in the middle of the fridge. Separate cupboards. Even if you are married or in a long term relationship, what is his or her is not automatically yours. So, you would be less willing to take his or her food that belongs to him or her if it is theirs and not shared (bought for both of you to eat).2 If vegans can live with meat eaters, you can be friends(or live) with someone who eats differently than you.3. You don't even need to make separate meals. Especially if they are healthy meals (which they should always be) But if he or she goes back for a second helping, or doesn't measure it out, don't complain. He or she is not watching calories, while you are. That is okay. If it is too tempting, measure a certain amount out, and give the rest to your partner, friend, or roommate. This way, if you are tempted to eat more because of your friends or partner you can't because that would be giving them something and then taking it back, which is really rude and mean and totally, uncool.Ex. If me and my boyfriend or my female friend lived together - I am trying lose 10 pounds, when I do lose it I want to maintain my weight to have a slender figure. I follow a very restrictive /strict diet of just whole foods during the week and whole food "junk" food during the weekend (while staying in a certain calorie range) Instead of just eating healthy I restrict calories to what I need (I follow a calorie counter/tracker). My boyfriend and friend both really enjoy eating;therefore, I would not make them restrict their calories or serving sizes just because I do. I love food, but want to be thin. They love food. I would always remind them they just because I eat less, doesn't mean they do. I would help them eat healthy; but I don't eat things like refined sugar, any yeast products,etc (to see my eating habits click on weight loss and the eating healthy for orexie link) during the week.They would. That is okay. I do allow myself those foods (still healthy and organic ) on the weekends, but I still watch my caloric intake. But I would let my friend and boyfriend eat however much they wanted to. If your roommate,friend,partner binges who cares. Their body, their rules (maybe eat slowly, but if they want to eat an entire (healthy pizza made with organic ingredients) it is their body,not yours. If they are feeling guilty about binging because you eat less here at m site Chunkealthy Life is some great ways for them to not feel guilty.4.Remind your friend/partner you will still love them. Some people feel their partner will not love them anymore after the weight loss. Remind your partner you will always find him or her sexy and remind your friends that you will always be the same person who thinks highly of them. Weight has no indication of sexiness, and if you find yourself thinking your partner isn't as sexy because you are losing weight, you have problems.5 It is not the weight, but what you eat. Do not think since you are losing weight and your friend or partner is not that you are healthy and they aren't. If you are both eating healthy, organic, whole foods and exercing you are both healthy. Just because they eat more doesn't mean they are automatically not healthy as weight does not have an indication of health. So don't not start lecturing your friend or partner about eating less/losing weight for health because you want to lose weight. You eat your 1500 (or whatever) calories and exercise for 30 minutes and let them eat their 3000(or whatever) calories and exercise for 30 minutes. Stay active throughout the day as a secondary lifestyle is dangerous and don't food/body police . Also see Love & Lust 13:4-7 my site about loving no matter what someone's body type, weight, etc is.
Shut the food police up
- Stop policing my daughter's appetite by Kasey Edwards - We don’t start out this way. Babies are born understanding their own appetites. They know when they’re full and when they’re hungry. Everyone around babies trusts them to regulate their own appetites.But as they grow, rather than teaching them to honour and listen to their bodies, we teach girls [and boys] in so many ways that not only is their appetite not to be trusted but something to be ashamed of. "
- THE PSYCHOLOGY OF FOOD SHAMING - "Through food, you can make connections to health and bodies and beauty and pretty much any issue you like, but there's a deeper internal drive that, most often, compels us to shame others for eating in a way that doesn't align with our own habits. On one level, it has to do with "moralization of food choice," says Paul Rozin, psychology professor at the University of Pennsylvania....a food-shamer will criticize someone who doesn't meet her definition of "good." The weird thing is that her idea of "good" could just as easily be a chia pod or a full-fat, finished-with-butter chocolate pudding—health doesn't seem to matter."
- [Pic:] Don't comment on a person's weight gain.... stop body policing. by WLI
- "Don't comment on a person's weight loss... didn't they look good before?"
- To the Man at the Restaurant Who Begged Me to Stop... by Sara Branblette @ The Mighty - "I do not owe you or anyone else an explanation for my weight, nor should I have to prove I’m healthy. I was just trying to have dinner with a friend. I’m just trying to live my life — a life already complicated by a chronic medical condition. I do not need it complicated even further by being shamed by strangers. And yet, that seems to be exactly what I have to do. I have to fight weight bias and stigma in every aspect of my life. In accessing healthcare and in seeking employment opportunities, I am faced with people making assumptions about my character, my intelligence and my abilities based on my weight.The size of my body does not measure any of those attributes.Weight is not an indicator of health or happiness. Health is more than a physical state of being. Health includes mental and emotional wellbeing. I was enjoying dinner with a friend after a day of work. We were talking and laughing until you interrupted us. You don’t know me or about my life. I don’t know you or the events of your day that led you to drink so much that you were drunk before 6 p.m." Note:I can think of numerous ways to die that are way worse than eating. I would die with a smile on my face in the afterlife.
- The Fatness Project - Taking up Space and Eating in Public @ Body Image at Waywire - "In a society where those we love, the media, and even doctors tell fat people to hide themselves, it's a radical act to take up space and to eat in public, especially without shame. This video features the producer of the Fatness Project on that subject."
- How To Respond When A Family Member Body-Shames You by Hannah Hickok - "1. Mentally prep for the situation. 2. Remember that their intentions may be good, even if their words are off-base.3. Let silence (or a few choice words) speak volumes. 4. Get instant therapy from your friends. 5. Be proactive, so it doesn’t happen again.6. If you have to, uninvite them from your life.7. Use it as a chance to build up your confidence."
- When they ask "What happened to the #DIET"? "The diet..died." - Chris Crocker
- 4 Tips to Stop Holiday Body Shaming Now by Lauren Marie Flemming (The Huffington Post)
- 5 Ways to Fight Body Shaming During the Holidays by Suzannah Wiess (Bustle)
- How to Heal from Fat Shaming Family by Corissa (of Fat Girl Flow)
- THE "HOW TO STAY BODY POSITIVE DURING THE HOLIDAYS" MASTER LIST - "HELP! How do I remain body positive when I'm with my family during the holidays?!?!" Or something with similar keywords; you know what I mean."
- I'm eatin my chicken so stop yo b******g - Chris Crocker // Link to T-shirt: https://represent.com/eatchicken
- Dear Virgie: “Diet Talk in the Office is KILLING Me!”Do Personal Boundaries Conflict With Oneness? by Teal Swan™
- Stick Up for Yourself: Every Kid's Guide to Personal Power & Positive Self-Esteem
- Love & Lust 13:4-7 my site about loving no matter what someone's body type, weight, etc is.
- Are Your Relationships Making You Fat?
- Lose Weight Despite Spouse Sabotage - not just dieting to lose weight, but to also maintain that weight. Communication is key. Don't be mean by choosing what your friends, family, or partner does with his or her body.
- How to Go Plant-Based (When Your Partner Won’t) - for vegans and non-vegan partners, but can help if your partner wants to eat lots and you don't because you want to be thin or maintain your weight.
- Are separate dinners the new separate bedrooms?
- Tess Munster- Holiday's speech on The Meredith Vieira show - you do you, let your partner and friends do themselves.
- Examining 12 ‘Good Fatty’ Archetypes We Depend On from Everyday Feminism
- [Pic:] "Losing weight is a personal decison ... it's like if I dyed my hair blonde then expect everyone else to. Stop being so narcissistic..." by WLI
- 6 Total A**hole Moves People Make When They're Getting Healthy by Chelsea Fagan @ distractify.
- Check out LoveMeFeedMe (dot) net - THIS is what eating healthy is about. Enjoying and loving food that is healthy. Weight loss is completely different. If you want to lose weight that is your personal choice, but do not mix up weight loss and eating healthy. I lost weight and I LOVE cooking/baking and feeding my friends and my boyfriend.I don't lecture my fat friends to lose weight, instead, I cook/bake for them. Screw calories (unless it is your choice to lose weight or maintain weight)
- If you feel you need to diet and someone says"I'll help you..." instead of "no,you're perfect." get rid of them. by WLI
- Fat (& thin) shaming doctor/peer kit: Food policing.Stop telling me to eat more/eat less - I don't want to lose /gain weight - All my friends are dieting, but i love food too much.-
- Dieting = the same survival mindset as being tortured/12 stages of grief/same mindset as PTSD/ Body policing (1984 style) by WLI
- My thoughts on "Carrot hot dogs," "cauliflower bbq wingz," "banana ice cream" and other "low calorie veggiefruit substitutes for foods.by WLI
- Dear Virgie: “I stopped dieting & my boo is disappointed with my body - "You have the right to refuse to educate a man. When you take the time to teach a man how not to be a fatphobic sexist I need you to understand that you are giving him a GIFT:The gift of understanding the power of his words and actions. The gift of helping him be a better person. The gift of giving him the tools to make you happy rather than just leaving his ass. The gift of your time and the gift of your faith in him. A gift is something you don’t owe anybody. A gift is a manifestation of generosity. And if you’re not feeling like Santa’ing up then that’s totally fine. If you decide that you want to give him that gift then please remember that you are being an amazing babe who deserves gratitude and a goddamn blackberry mojito." And if you are dating a female who is doing this, swap pronouns.
Say "no" to dieting / sticking up to the Body / food police.
- How to Say No: Research Reveals the Best Way
- How to say: Sorry, we are not interested?
- Can I say “No” politely for a task I'm not interested in doing?
- can anyone give me a polite way of saying "not interested"?
- How to Say No (Without Being an Asshole)
- How to Say No to Anyone (Even a Good Friend)
- How to Say No Respectfully
- How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty
- 10 Guilt-Free Strategies for Saying No
- Nice ways to say NO
- Setting Boundaries & Saying No… Nicely
How to Tell Someone You're Not Interested - Expert Panel – How to Politely Say “Not Interested”
- How to Learn to Say ‘No’
- 8 Ways to Say No Without Hurting Your Image
- Sometimes You Have to Say,"Thank You, But No Thank You."
- How to Say No to Others Without Offending Them
Are they vegan tho?
Are they vegan tho?
Now, I am not the food police, but veganism is the healthist and ethical(ist?) way of eating out there. If some ahole wants to body shame you and think that you are not healthy because of your weight, pull out the "are you vegan card" (even if you, yourself are not fully vegan)
Also, if you are a bigger person and get the whole "fat can't = healthy" speal you can always direct a meat eater to this page (regardless of YOUR eating habits) Just give them the same speal they give you. only twist it because a plant-based diet is one of the healthiest ways of eating (not food policing meat eaters;however, it has been proven it is, but it also is NOT as restrictive as people thing so unlike "fad diets" veganism is not just kale and tofu :D ) So you can say the same thing to them that they say to you! And.. as a vegan I can say the same thing to (fat shamer) meat eaters...stop eating meat... it's unhealthy!
Now, I am not the food police, but veganism is the healthist and ethical(ist?) way of eating out there. If some ahole wants to body shame you and think that you are not healthy because of your weight, pull out the "are you vegan card" (even if you, yourself are not fully vegan)
Also, if you are a bigger person and get the whole "fat can't = healthy" speal you can always direct a meat eater to this page (regardless of YOUR eating habits) Just give them the same speal they give you. only twist it because a plant-based diet is one of the healthiest ways of eating (not food policing meat eaters;however, it has been proven it is, but it also is NOT as restrictive as people thing so unlike "fad diets" veganism is not just kale and tofu :D ) So you can say the same thing to them that they say to you! And.. as a vegan I can say the same thing to (fat shamer) meat eaters...stop eating meat... it's unhealthy!
Health Concern Trolls
- [Video:] Fat People Are Unhealthy from Sarah Rae Vargas - "It's a passionate video. There is some colorful language. That is all. "
- 7 Arguments For Fat Positivity So You Can Defend The Movement To All The Haters by GEORGINA JONES - "Faux concern over a fat person's health is completely phony. Do you go around smacking cigarettes out of people's hands in the street? No. What about your thin friends eating McDonald's every day? Are you stopping them? No. So stop acting like your issues with somebody else's weight comes from a place of concern over health. You're just reaching for excuses for your shitty behavior. Not just that, but you're invalidating, ignoring, and insulting all the healthy fat people in the world, too."
- Dr. Phil - "I eat 30,000 calories a day!!" @ YouTube - Even though the thinner person says her fatter sister is actually healthier than she is Dr. Phil STILL belittles and attacks the poor lady for her fatness. When the thinner sister states she has high blood pressure while her fatter sister is healthy and has good blood pressure, Dr. Phil continues to attack the bigger sister about "now i know you have family history of high blood pressure" instead of shifting his focus on helping the thinner sister control her blood pressure.
- 11 Reasons Your ‘Concern’ for Fat People’s Health Isn’t Helping Anyone @ Everyday feminism - 1. Because Stereotyped Assumptions About Someone’s Weight Are Oppressive. You're worried about diabetes but not afraid about shaming them,sometimes to the point of suicide.2. Because Fat Doesn’t Kill 3. Because Fat Doesn’t Cause Disease Either. Because eating unhealthy does. 4. Because, If Anything, Fatphobia Causes Adverse Health Effects. 5. Because Mental Health Is Also Health. 6. Because ‘Glorifying Obesity’ Isn’t a Bad Thing. And you sound like people who think you can turn a kid gay people he or she sees two same sex people kissing. 7. Because One-Size-Fits-All Definitions of ‘Health’ Are Ableist and Perpetuate Heathism. 8. Because Weight Loss Doesn’t Actually Improve Health Anyway. 9. Because No, Being Fat Is Not At All Like Being a Smoker.10. Because You’re Subscribing to a Harmful Bootstraps Myth Mentality. 11. Because, Straight Up, Fat-Shaming Just Makes You a Jerk
- "concerned people" who are actually bigots hide behind...by WLI
- Thanks for being concerned about "my" health...by WLI
- Haters be like "too bad she's not healthy though." Picture of Hygeia, goddess of health, sanitation and cleanliness
- If it was height instead of weight....
- "You don't encourage people to take care of their body by telling them to hate it." - Laci Green
Eat in protest to fat shame/food policing
- Women Are Brilliantly Fighting Back at Body Shaming Trolls With Cake by By Laura Beck/ #CakesForCashmetette hashtag movement!
- "Fat people can eat whatever the fuck we want, whenever the fuck we want, however the fuck we want. Being fat does not inherently mean that we do not take care of our bodies nor does it mean we're unhealthy. But even if we are unhealthy, what does it matter? Why is health seen as the pinnacle of life's achievement? Why is health conflated with thinness and beauty standards? What is health and wellness in a white supremacist context? What is health when we don't have access to humanity and safety in our own bodies? Do you stop thin people and ask them what their cholesterol is? Do you ask thin people why they eat burgers instead of quinoa?Stop thinking fat people deserve to be violated because you think being fat is the worst thing in the world. Stop violating fat people because you think it will encourage us to lose weight. Stop telling fat people what we should do with our bodies. Stop policing the food we decide/ have access to eat. " - Ashleigh Shackelford
- #FatandVisible
- "Folks, I need your help if you're willing! I'm in the process of revising my "Food For Thought" performance in which I end with the quote by Isabel Foxen Duke that says, “When I eat a cupcake in public, I give all women everywhere permission to do the same.” I want to have a big ol' collage of women unapologetically eating cupcakes! Are you able to send me a picture of yourself eating a cupcake?! The more fun and excited, the better!!!" - Angie River
if a fat person is unhealthy - ableism
If a fat person is unhealthy, that is no reason to "motivate them by fat shaming." And their health problems probably have nothing to do with their weight. Nick Jonas has diabetes and he is thin. I believe that people should eat healthy and exercise but that is the best we can all do. Thin people are unhealthy, people get sick.
- The Unhealthy Fatty @ Axis of Fat - "What’s my point? My point is that it doesn’t matter how unhealthy a person is. They’re still human beings. They still deserve to be treated with human dignity, compassion, and fairness. This is why I don’t need to justify my health to anyone- because I’m a human being regardless. Because you being an ableist fatphobic dick isn’t on me- it’s on you. Someone being in poor health isn’t a reason to discriminate against people or to hate them or loathe them… I mean really, what’s wrong with these people who think they can take a person with diabetes and treat them as sub human just because their health status is different, not worse, just different, from their own?"
Ultracrepidarianism
Social alienation because of size is the same as any other reason for social alienation
Social Alienation
Social stigma
Social exclusion
Shunning
Blacklisting
"Send to Coventry"
Social isolation
Spiral of silence
Conspiracy of silence (expression)
outcast (treat people with different body types, emotions, etc. Differently)
Untouchability (
persona non grata
Untouchables (Caste system) / Burakumin / Etc.